Offensive and Obscene: A Healthy Investigation

by Jesse Wolf Hardin on August 1st, 2012
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Offensive and Obscene:

A Healthy Investigation

by Jesse Wolf Hardin
www.PlantHealerMagazine.com

“Profanity, like herbs, has its place in healing.”
–Charles “Doc” Garcia, Cuarandero

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We recently posted a Medicine Woman Roots blog excerpting from an interview I conducted with the much respected but bawdy curandero and street herbalist, Charles “Doc” Garcia.  We printed his earthy vernacular verbatim so as to capture rather than conceal his characteristically colorful and eloquently irreverent style.  If you ever walk the avenidas of a barrio, administer herbs to the homeless living on the streets of cities like Oakland, put time in the military, or even find yourself for whatever reason occupying a chair in a police department day room – as the Doc has – you will have heard enough cuss words not to take it personally.  The entire, lengthy, uncensored interview will appear in the pages of Plant Healer Magazine in 2013, in what Kiva and I consider to be a good demonstration of both the diversity in herbalism and the power of passion, a balance to the more temperate language and remarks of our other learned interviewees.  It may be, however, that not everyone will be happy about it.

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www.NoCussingHerbalists.org

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One reader wrote that she would no longer recommend the Medicine Roots Blog if Kiva didn’t remove all profanity and negativity.  Another, called Doc’s responses “offensive” and said that he couldn’t be a real curandero if he talked like that.  I cannot suppress the resulting inspiration, as you might guess, to address this issue of acceptable and unacceptable wordage.

When I brought it up with Doc, he explained himself this way:  “I spent ten years as a cop and ten more years as a teacher of the deaf.  Believe me, both groups swear like… well, they cuss alot!  I keep my language clean at dinner, holiday dinners, sometimes funerals, with old people with the exception of ex Marines and sailors, and I keep my mouth shut when I’m in the mountains looking at a stream of water I hope is clean.  Otherwise I call a spade a spade…not a digging tool.  Legally, I can’t say someone is a fraud or an idiot… but I can say ‘Bullshit!’  And ‘fuck’ in all its variations, even in the written form, makes any point crystal clear, as in:  ‘Hey Doc, I heard the Governor wants to make herbal tinctures illegal without a Rx.’   Fuuuuuck!    Everybody would understand such a comment.  Profanity, like herbs, has its place in healing.”

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A once clean shaven Doc first learns to express himself.

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The word “offensive” derives from the Latin “offens”, meaning “struck against.”  To be offensive means to take the initiative to attack, whether verbally or physically, and the word only later came to be used to describe any word or gesture that caused someone to feel angry or hurt.  Just because we are discomforted by a word doesn’t make if offensive, only objectionable.  Someone cussing as they walk by us may be indelicate, insensitive and unpleasant but there is no offense.  Truly offensive language is that which is directed towards someone.  Whereas a racist calling someone a “filthy nigger” is clearly offensive, street kids saying “What’s up, nigger?” to each other is not.
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It would have possibly been more accurate – if indeed more subjective – to have assailed Doc’s use of words for their “indecency”,  which the dictionary defines as “failing to conform with generally accepted standards of behavior, language and propriety.”  Both I, Kiva, and Plant Healer Magazine actually strive to avoid the limiting conformism of today’s contemporary standards, and challenge propriety whenever it takes precedence over authenticity, liberty, purpose, passion or personality.

In Plant Healer Magazine, we don’t want to offend anybody, any group, nor even any opinion or position.  We do not find any joy in upsetting those with a stronger allegiance to propriety than ourselves.  We will never, however, censor ours or an interviewee’s opinions or language out of fear of arousing someone’s moral indignation.

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BP Oil: Green Sponsor of The Olympics

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True obscenity is not the F-Word, but rather, the way that abusive husbands screw over their wives, the way both Democratic and Republican administrations align with corporations and screw us big time, how the handicapped, the poor and colored and hippie and punk and alternative and very old and very young have always been screwed up, screwed over, and screwed to the ground.  Obscene, if I may be allowed to say, is clear-cut forests with logging companies funding the elections of Senators, and oil-spilling BP being chosen as a “Green Sponsor” of the International Olympics.

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Not only obscene but offensive, are children going homeless on the streets of America and beyond, and the child who is starving in Sudan.  Offensive is feeding kids crappy plastic food, dosing them with insecurity, filling them with fear and teaching them to diss’ someone over the way they dress or talk.  “Offensive” is once-open minded, unprejudiced, and probably occasionally cussing kids growing up to judge, stereotype, reject, hate and condemn themselves and others.

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In the interest of reason as well as compassion, we might all do well to focus more on meaning than words, on folks’ good intent more than their unconventional style, on people’s loving hearts more than their sometimes bawdy mouths… on seeing and facing what we don’t like, without flinching, while focusing on what’s needed and what’s meant, what’s good and what’s right.

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(Feel Free To RePost… and to always speak your mind)


Categories: Jesse Wolf Hardin – Essays & Tales, Relationship and Communication

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  • Tree

    With my own particular brand of eloquence I say to you sir, Fuck Yeah! All words in their right place, all people living in grace.

  • *standing ovation*

    Much love for Doc, you and everyone who expresses authentically.

    Dana


  • Pat

    It’s fine with me if you publish interviews with people that are not familiar enough with the English language to come up with original, creative expressions rather than resorting to profanity. I don’t have to read them.


  • Anita

    I could see that coming! I believe in God and do my best to serve him and I try not to swear, having said that I don’t get all upset over someone elses’ language. Really why should I?
    We all live our lives differently and we all talk differently, what’s the big deal? Lots of worse things to get concerned about.
    anita


  • Gwendolyn

    To each their own. I think its more important to judge a person by the consistency and integrity of their deeds than their choice of language. Personally, I think fear is a major component of judging and rejecting someone for their words alone. I can say in all honesty that I have reacted fearfully in response to words that challenged my established way of perceiving. I can also say that I am still challenged by strong words and have learned to stop and acknowledge and examine my discomfort when I become aware of it.

    As I read the interview of Charles Garcia, I only incidentally noticed the cussing, (and I did wonder if anyone would feel offended). More than that, I was struck by the inevitable influence that those kinds of working conditions will have on spirit, perception, and personal expression. I am somewhat familiar with subsisting as a nobody under duress, so I’m not at all shocked by the spirit of the words or the words themselves. What always surprises me more is how many people that seemingly aren’t familiar with those conditions. I’d have thought that general awareness (and compassion) to the struggles and challenges of our neighbors would be far greater by now.


  • Irene

    Yes indeed. Insensitive, unpleasant words are contextual and if anything ignite curiousity in me. Where is this person coming from? What concrete jungle are they from. If it is provocative then hell I am open to it…If it is in the form of an attack that is abusive and unwarranted and ungrowthful then this is something to not tolerate at all.
    Doc Garcia, although I have not met him, is a man with much wisdom of the streets and of the weeds. It impresses me that despite the hard knocks, he is authentic and a sincere curandero who has the skill to work with the homeless. It requires duress, impeccability with word and action. Isolated, his words can come off as awakening and provocative and offensive. But on the same vein offensive and obscene is neglecting a calling of working with the hungered hobo and man on the street.
    I say, “fucking” awesome that we are able to lean into discomfort, be curious and learn new lessons.
    Sincerely, Irene


  • Barb

    Nicely said. I agree with the points you made and most of the other responces.However, I do have one small correction. You said …..”Whereas a racist calling someone a “filthy nigger” is clearly offensive,street kids saying “What’s up, nigger?” to each other is In fact they would never say “Nigger” to eachother. The “r” is not pronounced. It’s “Nigga” and that difference is quite important.


  • Treyvedon

    In the United States we have a right to our own thoughts (and beliefs). While there are some that take advantage of this and some that are trying to take this freedom away…at the moment we can still speak with our heart. I, too worked at a Jail and found it surprising when the first ‘F-word’ boiled forth from inside me. It is not the word but the content of the expletive and who it is directed at. Like Doc, I try to keep my dirty words for ’special occassions’ when I’m really making a point and/or if someone is using them as poison arrows directed at one who cannot fend for themselves. I’ve read Doc’s interview and found it to contain more important words that the few ‘obsene’ words pointed out. Perhaps we all need to read with our heart and soul and not condemn someone who is passionate about their beliefs. I understand.

  • 100% right-on commentary, as usual.

    “Not only obscene but offensive, are children going homeless on the streets of America and beyond, and the child who is starving in Sudan. Offensive is feeding kids crappy plastic food, dosing them with insecurity, filling them with fear and teaching them to diss’ someone over the way they dress or talk. “Offensive” is once-open minded, unprejudiced, and probably occasionally cussing kids growing up to judge, stereotype, reject, hate and condemn themselves and others.”

    Uh, yeah. These are things that bother me far – should bother people in general – far more than swearing. I have a bit of a potty mouth myself, truth be told.

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